You really need to start believing in yourself, a great way to feel better and to get yourself feeling more positive is to get out there in the sunshine , go for a walk and clear your mind well it works for me. I think everyone's worst critic is themselves, stop worrying and try to get on with life , make yourself 1 and stop worrying about what others are thinking. Thank you for responding back with your kind reply and your really nice words you wrote about me. Too busy for a relationship, me thinks — said with tongue in cheek Sleeping — said with tongue in cheek and a cheeky wink ;.
Did you see the Hobbit movie?? I hope you are able to get back here if you ok to do so.
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So much incredible support. It is my opinion that males dont mature until they are in their 30's. Only then do they look for a girl that is intelligent, warm hearted, creative and her own person. We cant all be celeb's in looks. But we can develop ourselves to become truly wonderful and attractive people.
So my advice is to concentrate on your career, your hobbies as mentioned and find things that you enjoy in life. Funny, there is a show on TV at the moment called House rules. There are 6 men and 6 women. You could say that 4 of the women are attractive in the traditional sense thru guys eyes. One of the remaining women is not so attractive but bubbly and fair dinkum- she is her own self.
I told my wife which of all 6 of them I found is closest to my choice if I was single and she got a shock. And when one of the pretty ones started crying which one went to her aid? The one I reckon was a good catch.
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So in respect to guys tastes most people think its the model type we like best Find your inner personality and make it shine, appreciate your uniqueness and love it, cradle your heart and run with it into the sunlight of confidence. Then things will work out for you.
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I'm so glad that the above people have responded to you. They are all so supportive and active in this community, its so great to know that so many people care! Well done for being so brave by jumping on here. I am a huge believer in the fact that there is the perfect soul mate out there for everyone. I am also a huge believer that everyone is beautiful, even if its not the 'social standard', which all lets admit, is a bit warped. I am also a huge believer in karma and beauty shines from the inside and confidence.
What I'm trying to say is run your own race. Don't be like everyone else. Be unique because you are unique.
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Be confident in yourself and it will shine through. Do little things for yourself that will make you feel good, like painting your nails, or having a bath, or getting a new haircut. I found that I could be beautiful in my own unique way and develop my style so I was happy, not society's views.
Sure I get funny looks when I walk down the street, but I believe its because I'm different and that they are admiring. Your friend- it is a shame she is not supportive of you. The guy, well he is an idiot for losing you and you deserve much better. I'm sure that the perfect person will fall right in your lap when you least expect it!
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You are still young and have so much to do and experience. Enjoy being single and beautiful, because you are! Let me start off by telling you that I have never seen a physically ugly person. I don't believe there is such a thing and if they exists, I have not come across this person! Everyone is born with their own set of aesthetics, which are as pleasing to the eye as the next person. Our society is obsessed with what is a very narrow conception of beauty, and to me it is ridiculous because I believe a society should celebrate all kinds of diversity.
So let me just say, I don't think you are ugly at all.
On the other hand, I have come across many people with ugly souls and your ex-partner sounds like he was one. There is no time for people like that, they have a very limited view of the world and frankly it's boring! The way I see it is like art.
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The example I use may require google. I want you to look up 'Camille Pissarro, Cowherd'. The images that come up will be quite pretty, quite picturesque but not necessarily that interesting or engaging. The same thing goes with our society, we can be obsessed with the picturesque. Advertising agencies utilise a standard look when choosing a model, and by and large it doesn't challenge. Next art work to look up, Weeping Woman by Picasso. There is nothing picturesque about this painting.
Has this had any affect on the painting's success? It is considered one of the most beautiful paintings yet to exist. It challenges you, and there is nothing bland about it. The way you look is entirely your own, you do not have to be picturesque to be beautiful, it comes from within: I want to add quickly, I am a few years older than you 24 and I suppose I am considered stereotypically attractive , however this has no baring at all on my happiness, particularly my romantic happiness.
I have never had a fulfilling relationship when it has been based solely on a male's attraction to how I look. I have been discarded countless times by men who were only interested in a trophey. The only love I have ever received is because of my personality. Chin up, you are very beautiful and have so much to be proud of - I hope university goes well for you - that is a huge achievement: Sign up below for regular emails filled with information, advice and support for you or your loved ones.
Home Get support Online forums. Online forums Before you can post or reply in these forums, please complete your profile Complete your profile. Cancel The title field is required! Hi everyone, I am just here to vent, I don't have anyone to talk to in real life but I need to put it out there. I need some tips on how to keep going through life without love. How else can I be happy? Thank you so much for your kind reply Jess, it made me feel a lot better. I will read it every day to try to stay hopeful that my future isn't as bleak as it seems.
I was afraid people would just see me as a dumb girl who wants a boyfriend, but I really do feel very low at the moment and you'll never know how much your words have helped me.